My Village

That’s what you are to me. And, if I am going to be of any help or assistance to you and your journey, I have to be vulnerable, right? I don’t want to be but in order to create the safe space that you need, I have to be. And for you, I’ll do that.

But first… I am Tren, your doula. Thank you for being here with me and letting me be a part of your sacred journey to parenthood, healing, discovery, and peace.

I have been wanting to post blogs for a very long time but I am an INFJ with a Virgo Sun and Virgo Moon. I need everything to be perfect. Honestly, I am not the most vulnerable person. I tend to be very reserved yet emotional. I actually cried when talking about including blogs on my website. Cause I already knew that I was going to have to fight through my introvertness and give pieces of me that I tend to keep hidden away.

I was told “Tren, just do it. Just put it out there. The people want to watch you grow. Just do it.” So here I am, Village, doing it. LOL.

We will laugh, cry, celebrate, rejoice, and have bad days. There we will talk about triggers due to birthing experiences, falling in love with ourselves, womb traumas due to sexual assault, and giving ourselves grace. Literally everything. All of those things have a huge impact on birth and parenting.

There are so many different ways to get to parenthood. So many reasons and paths. One thing I think we all have in common as parents is that most of us underestimated it. I damn sure know I did. With each entry, I will share parts of my story that will explain how I made it here with you.

How life brought us in this space together. How I am going to change your life and how you will change mine.

Thank you for choosing me. I appreciate you being here with me. 

Love,

Your Doula